Cassandra and I have been invited to an awesome event in November. It’s making us a little crazy that we can’t go. We are Attachment Parents. We are bloggers who don’t have advertisers or sponsors. We Cannot Go.
This is what I wrote to her last night, “At the end of the day, our kiddos aren’t going to care if we become VIP bloggers – they will remember the time we spent with them.”
Speaking for myself, my soul is fed by providing a place of safety and presence for our children. This is not true for everyone, and this morning, an article about finding what works for you as a mother showed up in my inbox:
“Working or staying at home, make the most of your home life. Don’t resent your family and don’t miss out on their lives. Prioritize so that you won’t look back on these years and see that you did it all wrong. You’ll never regret spending quality time with the ones you love, but you do still have to stay true to the responsibilities taken in all areas of your life.”
The author has lots of other gems to share – you can read the whole article here: http://bit.ly/16i8Aew
Such a great confirmation that each mama needs to do what is right for them. If it doesn’t work financially, and/or it doesn’t sit well with your soul…skip it! Keep on keeping on, knowing that you are making the right choice for you. No one else has to walk in your shoes – you do. No one else has to fall asleep with your conscience…you do. Parent them, love them, be with them in the way that works for you so that it works for them.
What do you think? How did you navigate the choice between staying home and going back to work? How do you balance “me time” with “family time”?